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Monday, October 18, 2021

Agapé and the science of meditation

 

Once again I found a book that gets caught in word confusion because of trying to stretch the weak English word ‘love’ to mean so much more than the usual understanding of love. As I’ve tried to make the point many times in this blog, such confusion could be straightened out by using a different word. 

Of course, we have a helpful historical example of that being done in the Greek culture of 2,000 years ago. When there was a similar problem with the Greek word for love, ‘eros;’ back then the word that was found to be the best to use instead was the strange, ancient Greek word ‘agapé.’ That example of verbal usage is preserved for us in Christian writings.

This time, the modern book I found with the confusion is Silent Music: The Science of Meditation by William Johnston. The confusion comes when he tries to stretch ‘love’ to gain the meaning of some power that is highly spiritual. For example, when he writes:  

“in mysticism the very highest form of human energy is brought into play, a human energy that is nothing other than love at the core of one’s being. It is precisely this that builds the earth.”

I claim that such statements cause confusion because most people would not understand what he’s referring to there. So when Greek writers in the First Century wanted to avoid such confusion, they didn’t use the common Greek word for ‘love’ but instead used the word ‘agapé.’ The best example that fits what Johnston was referring to is in Romans 5:5 — “God’s agapé has been poured into our hearts by the Holy Spirit.”

William Johnston didn’t seem to realize that the original Greek of most of his New Testament quotes used ‘agapé’ instead of ‘eros.’ But Johnston’s efforts with new meanings of love did bring up the point that there is something very similar between the highest type of spiritual love and agapé. But when he tried to explain how love could be understood as the basis of the development toward enlightenment, most people would be confused by how he used ‘love’ to be such a basis. This is especially the case when he started talking about meditation as a “love affair.” 

One example of his confused way of trying to express a very different meaning of love came when he wrote: “The love that builds the cosmos is universal love, the highest love that can fill the human heart. Though the working of mystical love and its power to heal are mysteries that no man understands.” Most people would have trouble trying to figure out what meaning is achieved in the many places where he tacked onto ‘love’ such additional words as ‘cosmic universal,’ ‘mystical,’ ‘highest type of spiritual’ and ‘healing power of.’

That confusion is especially seen in the passages where Johnston quotes Viktor Frankl and Teilhard de Chardin. Two such examples are Frankl’s quote: “Loving represents a coming to relationship with another as a spiritual being.” Then — Teilhard “sees friendship and spiritual love in their cosmic setting — woman leads man out of his cramping isolation, pointing the way to a universal love that encompasses mankind and the whole universe, leading on to God.” So substitute ‘agapé’ for ‘love’ and see the change that brings to your understanding.

That confusion could be cleared up by changing ‘love’ to ‘agapé,’ as we can see for example in the following changed quotes: “The enlightenment that comes from agapé is necessarily incarnational. It involves us in society and never cuts us off from reality. Agapé is the essence of the deepest meditation. The whole process should be undergirded by agapé if the enlightenment is to go the whole way.” 

In other words, the process of understanding is advanced when such substitutions are used to explain to modern people what agapé means. And such attempts to explain are helped by keeping some of the psychic sense of the meaning of love and adding it to the meaning of agapé. And so when the substitution is made in the last paragraph of his book, we can hear him say: “It is agapé that builds the earth and carries forward the thrust of evolution.”

Friday, October 1, 2021

Agapé from a psychiatric perspective

 

Recently I ran across agapé quotes in a book by psychiatrist, Thomas Moore. The following quotes are from his book Writing in the Sand. There he recognizes that many people use the word ‘love’ to mean so much more than the usual understanding of love, that what helps is to use a different word in order to avoid confusion. The word that is the best to use is the old Greek word ‘agapé.’ That is the word used in ancient Christian scriptures.


“If you read the Christian Gospels in Greek, you find the word agapé used again and again to describe the love that defines ‘the kingdom.’ The word appears over 300 times in the New Testament, such is its importance. In context, it connotes a communal feeling of connection, which Paul spells out as being selfless and which is the opposite of narcissism. It goes against conventional wisdom, the ways of the world, and plain, unrefined passion.

“In the context of the Gospels, agapé is different. Agapé doesn’t depend on the other’s actions. The shift in worldview from power to agapé is so radical that one can hardly imagine what the change would be like in practical terms.

“The agapé that Jesus teaches and demonstrates is a spiritually refined form of love. It is not romantic love, nor it exactly friendship. It is an experience of communal enjoyment of another that doesn’t demand conformity or even a return to love. This kind of loving requires an education in the spirit, a healing of mind and heart, and a true baptism — coming into a new level of being by entering the flowing stream of vitality. 

        "Agapé is an alternative to hatred, suspicion, judgment, and paranoia. It is less an emotion and more an orientation toward life. You face the world with an open heart rather than with a suspicious or punitive one. The agapé of the Gospels is not just a feeling; it’s a stance, a position, an evaluation that generates respect. 

“The mystery of who Jesus is will be revealed in the context of spiritual and mundane agapé — only by discovering the power of agapé and how it can operate as a basic life principle.

“You may have to learn how to open your heart without fear and live the philosophy of agapé that is central to the Gospels. You may have to find a conduit to the source of your life, an abiding spiritual awareness that brings you up out of the small perimeters of your mind and your life.

“Your way out of suffering is to reimagine and reinvent your life. That is what Jesus is all about: reinventing your worldview so that you become less paranoid and narcissistic and unleash the creative power of agapé, a base of human interaction that is loving rather than competitive and power-driven.

“In ancient Greece, agapé referred to the value placed on jewels and other precious objects. This nuance fits the Gospels, where Jesus places high value on people who are normally rejected. He sees through surface problems of illness, weakness, and failure to the jewel at the core of the person. Jesus’ example shows that agapé is genuine acceptance of those who are rejected and judged, a warm embrace of a variety of people, and consistent attention to close friends.

“This capacity to see the value in every kind of person, of every level in society, from any place on earth, and with any problem or neurosis imaginable, is central to Jesus’ character and philosophy and his way of walking through life — living in paradox, being open to life’s variety, not judging; walking slowly and attentively through life, offering agapé and kindness in the most combative conditions.

“You can imagine Jesus, completely given to the world of wakening and enlivening humanity through a philosophy of agapé, being profoundly disturbed by our current situation. Imagine Jesus as speaking to the people of the world, not to convert them to a theology or, worse, an ideology, but to persuade them to mature spiritually, to arrive at a point of civility and imagination that allows them to live in peace and under the rule of agapé. Jesus is revealing a truth that everyone knows but forgets or sets aside: if the world could live by the principle of agapé, it would find its healing and would come to life.”


(An example of the verb form of agapé is shown in John 13:34-35 when the Greek is left untranslated: “I’m giving you a new commandment, that you ‘agapate’ each other. As I have ‘agapate’ you, you ‘agapesa' each other. In this everyone will know that you are my disciples: that you have ‘agapen’ for each other.”)